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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 02:02 #44801
arabianights
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I can't be the only person with this problem... how do you explain your SimSig addiction to your SO? I have just gotten the bug very recently (although I have been interested in trains since a wee lad) and to be fair am spending quite a few hours a day on the PC atm doing this, heck it's 3am (albeit on a friday) I just noticed...

How do you best try to explain this little hobby of hours? Or do you not even try?

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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 03:32 #44803
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I almost didn't approve this post from just the username and thread title - I thought it was spam!

Anyway, welcome. And to answer your question, I don't try. Like a train show last weekend, "what will there be?" - "trains," I say. "So what do we do there?". Never mind. (She did actually enjoy it)

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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 10:52 #44814
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Mine just says "trainspotting again?!" Indicating she hasn't got a clue what I'm doing! Used to argue it with her! Now it's just "whatever" :-)
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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 11:22 #44816
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My problem is when I also use TS. She keep shouting to me "What did you say?".

I learn to talk in a softer voice.

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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 11:57 #44817
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When I was dating & before I got married to her she actually took an interest in my hobby. Even though I was working on British Rail at the time. I used to think she was crazy & couldn't understand why she quite liked looking at trains. I remember where I was at Nottingham control, I ended up having to work a rest day Saturday & I was actually booked to go on a railtour from Nottingham which went around Yorkshire as there was a section of track it covered near Healey Mills yard which I'd never done. In the finish I gave her the ticket & she went with the kids & a friend of mine with his wife on the train. Never did do that bit of track & that was in 1996. Although the strangest looks I got was after we were married we went to Cleethorpes on a summer Saturday. I diverted the car to go round Immingham TMD. AT this time I was the loco controller for EWS covering the East Midlands, Yorkshire & Humberside region, so getting round wasn't a problem. Although I got some funny looks from mrmbers of staff. There I was taking photos of the locos on the shed & she was walking with me in a pair of tight jeans, stiletto shoes & a tee-shirt. It probably did look odd to those 'normal' people although I will admit she never complained once. Although now divorced & no it wasn't to do with trains that the marriage ended, as it's only me & my 2 cats they don't seem to be bothered about me being on the PC all day everyday writing SimSig timetables. But you can't tell a cat not to jump up on the coffee table & lay either on the WTT your are working from or on the keyboard when you are either writing a timetable or playing a sim.
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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 14:39 #44825
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" said:
When I was dating & before I got married to her she actually took an interest in my hobby. Even though I was working on British Rail at the time. I used to think she was crazy & couldn't understand why she quite liked looking at trains. I remember where I was at Nottingham control, I ended up having to work a rest day Saturday & I was actually booked to go on a railtour from Nottingham which went around Yorkshire as there was a section of track it covered near Healey Mills yard which I'd never done. In the finish I gave her the ticket & she went with the kids & a friend of mine with his wife on the train. Never did do that bit of track & that was in 1996. Although the strangest looks I got was after we were married we went to Cleethorpes on a summer Saturday. I diverted the car to go round Immingham TMD. AT this time I was the loco controller for EWS covering the East Midlands, Yorkshire & Humberside region, so getting round wasn't a problem. Although I got some funny looks from mrmbers of staff. There I was taking photos of the locos on the shed & she was walking with me in a pair of tight jeans, stiletto shoes & a tee-shirt. It probably did look odd to those 'normal' people although I will admit she never complained once. Although now divorced & no it wasn't to do with trains that the marriage ended, as it's only me & my 2 cats they don't seem to be bothered about me being on the PC all day everyday writing SimSig timetables. But you can't tell a cat not to jump up on the coffee table & lay either on the WTT your are working from or on the keyboard when you are either writing a timetable or playing a sim.
I'll have to check your TTs Pascal and check that your cats have recognition for "their typing and help" in your timetable writing lol

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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 14:56 #44827
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TimTamToe wrote:
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I'll have to check your TTs Pascal and check that your cats have recognition for "their typing and help" in your timetable writing lol

There has been times over the past couple of weeks when I've had to give up tt'ing, as one of the cats wants a fuss. The other night whilst playing the new Carlisle 79-80 tt the male cat was trying to catch the train moving along the track with his paws. Maybe the cat is becoming a 'railway' cat?

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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 22:10 #44843
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My other half loves it. It means she can watch soaps etc, in the living room, whilst I play on the laptop, in the dining room.
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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 22:47 #44844
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I am Signaller in real life so my partner knows what Simsig is, what she doesn't understand is why. My dog is just happy I sit still for a while.
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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 18/05/2013 at 23:56 #44847
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" said:
I am Signaller in real life so my partner knows what Simsig is, what she doesn't understand is why. My dog is just happy I sit still for a while.

I have a friend who works in the railways, who asks me what I've been up to since I last saw him (usually a week or so). I say I've been playing SimSig (the British signalling game) and he'll either ask why or be sorry he asked. Says I need a life lol

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Explaining to your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/dog... 19/05/2013 at 06:46 #44854
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Sometimes I say to my partner that I get to make decisions with train running on Simsig that have long been taken away from me in real life.
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